Father of the Groom Gifts

There is no single right father of the groom gift. Match it to the dad, and keep it personal:

• Pour him a real drink: an engraved decanter set or a set of whiskey glasses turns the gift into a toast on the wedding day, and he uses it long after.
• Mark the role: a flask or glass engraved "Father of the Groom" with your wedding date makes the day part of the gift. See our Father of the Groom and Bride flasks.
• Dress the suit: cuff links engraved with his initials are a small, refined gift he wears in every photo.
• Give him a keepsake for the dresser: a leather valet box holds the watch, the ring, and the day without being fussy.
• For the hands-on dad: an engraved hammer or an engraved knife reads as a real gift he actually uses, not a party favor.

Worried about picking something cheesy? Skip the novelty mug and the joke gift. A clean engraving of his name, his initials, or your wedding date on a quality piece he would choose for himself is what makes a father of the groom gift land. Shopping for both dads at once? Pair this with a gift for the father of the bride so the two match [link to /father-of-the-bride-gifts once live]. Short on time? See our last-minute wedding gifts.

Every item is laser engraved with sharp, permanent detail, and there is no character limit, so add his name, initials, your wedding date, or a short message. Upload your own artwork if you want it on there too, and add gift wrap at checkout to have it ready to hand over.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does the father of the groom get a gift?

Yes. It is customary for the father of the groom to receive a gift, usually from the groom, and sometimes from the couple or the future daughter-in-law, as a thank-you for his role in the wedding. A personalized, engraved gift is the most common choice because it marks the occasion and he keeps it.

What is a good gift for the father of the groom?

The gifts that land are ones he would not buy for himself and can use after the wedding: an engraved decanter or whiskey set, a flask marked "Father of the Groom," cuff links for the suit, or a leather keepsake box. Personalize it with his name, initials, or your wedding date.

What should a son give his dad for his wedding?

From the son, the gifts that carry the most weight are the personal ones: a flask or decanter engraved "Dad" with the wedding date, a keepsake box, or a piece tied to something they share, like a father-son whiskey pour. The engraving is what turns a good product into a gift he holds onto.

How much should you spend on a father of the groom gift?

There is no fixed rule, but a common range is around $40 to $120, depending on how close you are to him and whether the gift also serves as a wedding-day thank-you. At Lazer Designs, personalized father of the groom gifts start around $27, engraving is included, and there is no minimum order.

Can I personalize a father of the groom gift, and what should I engrave?

Yes. Every piece is laser engraved in our own shop, and there is no character limit, so you can add his name, initials, your wedding date, a "Father of the Groom" title, or a short message. Not sure what to write? His name plus your wedding date is a safe, timeless choice.

When should you give the father of the groom his gift, and how fast can I get it?

Many families hand it over at the rehearsal dinner, when everyone is together. Because each gift is engraved to order, leave time for personalization: most orders ship within 1 to 3 business days, same day when your complete order is in by 11 am MST. Order a couple of weeks ahead to be safe.