Wedding planning is hard, but finding a personalized groomsman gift doesn’t have to be. You chose them to stand by your side during the biggest day of your life, so they deserve the best. But in a world of endless wedding gift choices, it can be hard to narrow down exactly the right gift for your groomsmen. That’s why we made this easy, four-step guide to finding the ultimate, personalized gift for your groomsmen.
There are four steps you’ll want to follow:
- Picking a theme
- Knowing your groomsmen
- Picking a gift
- Adding a special touch
Let’s get started.
Step One: Choosing a Theme
This step can be fairly straightforward if you already have a wedding theme (Star Wars, anyone?). But if your theme is only “navy blue and ivory” then it gets a bit trickier. The best way to think of your theme is to think of the kind of feel you want your wedding guests to have when they’re celebrating your big day.

For example, if you want your wedding to be a fun-filled, all-night rager, then you’re going for a party theme. Or if you want to feel like you’re chilling by the palm trees, then a beach theme might be up your alley. Either way, narrowing down the overall feel you’re going for will help you create the best-personalized groomsmen gifts for your special day.
Now it’s time to start thinking about who you chose to stand by your side: the groomsmen.
Step Two: Knowing Your Groomsmen
Regardless of what theme you go with, it’s important to understand your groomsmen. Do you have a group of guys who care about the environment? Then you probably don’t want to choose something cheap and disposable. Or maybe you have a couple of groomsmen who don’t drink – in that case, you should probably avoid flasks and shot glasses. (Though custom shot glasses and personalized flasks make great groomsmen gifts for those who love to throw back a few drinks!)
You don’t necessarily have to get the same gift for each member of your wedding party. But having one central gift can foster a sense of connection among your friends. Plus, the gifts can make for great photo opportunities!
Once you’ve narrowed down the preferences of your groomsmen, it’s time to make your gift selection.
Step Three: Picking a Personalized Groomsman Gift
This is, of course, the most important step. So how do you narrow down your options? Thankfully, if you’ve done steps one and two in this list, this part should go smoothly. We’ll use some of the examples above to come up with a few ideas.
Let’s say you’re going for a beach theme and you have a group of eco-conscious groomsmen. Why not get them some personalized reusable metal straws? That way they can enjoy the signature pina Coladas at your wedding without guilt.

What if you want a huge party but have a few teetotaling men standing by your side? Custom-engraved glassesware might be your best option. That way everyone can partake in the festivities and match, whether they have a stout or soda in their glass.

Of course, if you’re going for a party theme and have a group of drinkers, then the answer is easy: custom shot glasses or flasks!

Speaking of personalization, it’s time to take these gifts to the next level and really give them something they can cherish.
Step Four: Adding a Special Touch
Now that you’ve chosen your custom groomsman gift, it’s time to add a special touch. The best way to do this is by personalizing the gifts. You can really get creative with this part! Putting their name on it is an obvious choice and one that everyone will love (especially the straws – they’ll never forget which one is theirs). But you can also add a fun inside joke or a design that fits in with your theme.
You’ll also want to present the gifts in a fun way. One way is to get everyone together to open them in front of the camera and then strike a pose. You can even gift them in fun packaging, or in a reusable bag they can use to haul their stuff from the reception to the hotel.
Final Thoughts
Being a part of your big day is special enough, but you can truly sweeten the deal with a personalized gift that suits their unique style while still thanking for joining your wedding party. We have so many engraved groomsmen gifts to choose from, so you’re sure to find something that fits your groomsmen perfectly.
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